For girls, the first night is the first sexual experience in life. It should always be romantic. Unfortunately, there is no bleeding on the first night. What should I do? ! ! Will it catch you both off guard and unable to explain to the other party because you don’t know why? Today I will give girls a reasonable explanation so that you can have evidence to prove that the absence of bleeding does not mean that you have had sex.

Girls, the hymen does not have only one shape~

The hymen is located 1-2 cm inside the vaginal opening. Each hymen looks different and varies in size, color, and shape. It is made of thin folds of mucosal tissue, which can be tight or looser. It is slightly pink in color and almost transparent, but some girls have thicker hymens and may look a little pale. Therefore, the degree of pain for the first time depends on the thickness of the hymen. The thicker the hymen, the more painful it will be for the first time. But basically the shape will look like the petals of a rose or other flower, or like a puzzle piece or a half-moon. Most hymens are elastic.

Will it bleed the first time? ?

Most people's hymens do not bleed. Regardless of what their hymen looks like, more than half of people don't bleed during first night. Then why do some girls bleed on their first night? It’s because their hymens are tighter and thicker. If you have never had sexual experience in the past, or have not aroused sexual desire, are too nervous, or have tight nerves, and the hymen will become dry as a result, the hymen may be slightly ruptured and sometimes bleed inadvertently. At this time, the girl will think that she is menstruating. Or irregular menstruation and sudden bleeding. It is easy to be ignored, because you have not had sexual experience yet, so you will naturally not think that the hymen is ruptured.

Also, the hymen is a thin layer of mucosal tissue surrounding the vaginal opening. It contains connective tissue, blood vessels and nerve endings. It has different shapes depending on the development of each person. It often ruptures due to strenuous exercise or trauma.

What happens if the bleeding doesn’t stop after the first night?

If the bleeding does not stop on the first night, it may be that the hymen is too thick and tight during lovemaking, and the vaginal opening is too narrow.

Causes vaginal laceration causing acute vaginal bleeding. However, the common causes of abnormal vaginal bleeding include ovarian endocrine dysfunction, inflammation, tumors, and injuries. . Etc., especially in adolescent women, symptoms of functional hemorrhage may occur, often manifesting as abnormal menstrual cycles or a history of menopause, sudden acute vaginal bleeding, and no abnormality on physical examination.

If you go to the hospital for a gynecological examination, will using a vaginal speculum cause damage to your virginity?

If girls go to the hospital for examination due to symptoms such as abnormal vaginal bleeding or discharge, the doctor will perform a vaginal speculum examination. Nasal speculum examination can detect lesions and foreign bodies near the vaginal opening. If hysteroscopy is used to examine the vagina and cervix of young girls or unmarried women, if lesions or foreign bodies are found, immediate biopsy or foreign bodies can be removed. The hymen will not be damaged when entering and exiting, and the accuracy is high. Therefore, it is recommended that girls who are still virgins undergo hysteroscopy to avoid damaging the hymen.

Are there any diseases related to the hymen?

I wonder if girls have ever heard of hymen atresia? It is found after menarche. If the uterus and vagina develop normally, menstrual blood accumulates in the vagina after menarche and then expands to the uterus, forming vaginal hematometra. Excessive blood accumulation can flow into the fallopian tube and enter the abdominal cavity through the fimbria of the fallopian tube. The peritoneum near the vagina is stimulated by menstrual blood to cause edema and adhesion, resulting in atresia of the fimbriae of the fallopian tubes, resulting in hemorrhage in the vagina, uterus, and fallopian tubes.

What symptoms will it show?

1. No menarche after puberty.

2. Periodic lower abdominal pain that gradually worsens.

3. There is a mass in the lower abdomen that is getting bigger every month.

4. In severe cases, it may be accompanied by symptoms such as constipation, frequent urination or urinary retention, constipation, and anal swelling.

Girls who have the above symptoms need to pay attention! !

Speaking of virgins and non-virgins, in some countries, they stipulate that women must be virgins to get married. If they are not virgins, they will lynching their daughters. Especially in India, there are Muslim women who have pure religious beliefs, so Girls must shave their pubic hair and cannot have sex before marriage. On the wedding day, they will ask two women to check whether the bride is a virgin before the wedding. Usually, the girl's hymen is pierced directly, and the virgin's blood is covered with a white silk scarf and thrown down from the stairs. If there is no blood on the thrown scarf, it proves that the bride is not a virgin. One girl's wedding banquet was canceled because she did not bleed during the wedding examination, and the bride price and gift money were returned. The girl's father felt that his daughter had brought shame to the family, so he dragged his daughter home and executed her. Because lynching is not illegal in India, many girls died as a result.

Is it really that important whether there is bleeding on the first night? Traditional ideas have bound many women. The first night without blood was a huge blow to them, and without enough knowledge to explain, they were spurned by the other party, doubting that their first time had already been given. other people. Such unfair treatment left a big shadow in their hearts.

Many girls and their partners think that when they have sex for the first time, they must bleed to prove that they are virgins. This will inevitably cause psychological disorders for girls. Girls, idol dramas and costume dramas should not be used. Reading too much can easily mislead everyone. Girls have no choice but to tell their lovers that they broke their hymens because they rode bicycles too often, or that they accidentally fell down and broke their hymens...etc. It is very unscientific to judge whether you are a virgin based on whether you bleed during sex for the first time. If this kind of problem occurs, show this article from the assistant to prove that your first night will not bleed.