He has no shortage of female friends around him. Once the other party hints at further development, he disappears from the world.

She is on the edge of love with her stable boyfriend, but she still refuses the 101st proposal.

In this gorgeous city, some people hate getting married while others are afraid of getting married.

“Afraid that a woman will change her face after getting married”

Mr. Wu, 30, is a department manager of a foreign company. He has a high degree of education, a high salary, and a house. He can be called a diamond king. There were girls around him one after another, but he regarded them as buddies in his heart and kept a certain distance from them. He is also happy to spend his free time with them, go clubbing today, go to karaoke tomorrow, or eat seafood in the next two days.

If any of his girlfriends came to him for something, he would not hesitate and would take the responsibility to the end. But if he meets a girl who wants to elevate their relationship to love, and not only that, but also says that she has the potential to be a "model husband" with blushing cheeks, Mr. Wu said: "I'm sorry, I have no choice but to play missing with her." ”

Friends around Mr. Wu are deeply suspicious of his actions. He has excellent conditions in all aspects, and the conditions of the girls who ask for further relationships are also good. Why does Mr. Wu reject them again and again? "Actually, I'm not refusing. I'm just afraid of marriage." Mr. Wu said that he was afraid that in order to support his family and listen to his wife, he turned himself into a money-making machine. "I'm afraid that a woman who was cute before getting married will change her face after getting married."

In his opinion, some women originally had many ambitions and ideals, but once they get married, they who used to work hard will start to Short-sighted, only interested in one-third of an acre of his own life, he will regard the teaching of his husband as a compulsory course for the rest of his life. "Women are a good school for men" is such a terrible statement for Mr. Wu. "There are so many men around me who were full of energy before getting married, but as soon as they enter the marriage school, they become disgraced and listless! I am used to being comfortable outside the gate of marriage, but I don't want to suffer in a school run by women!"

Therefore, Mr. Wu, the diamond king, raised high the banner of "fear of marriage" and declared: "Beauty is best produced by distance!"

What are the people who fear marriage afraid of?

There is only one reason for getting married: "love", but there are various reasons for not getting married.

Some people have witnessed the love tragedy within the family and grew up with their parents quarreling. They even think that their parents tortured them and ruined the holy marriage. In the end, they could only get rid of the misery through divorce. Even after your parents break up, give them more love respectively. However, children who grow up in the city of abandoned marriages, no matter how rich they are materially, cannot heal the spiritual rift.

With the high divorce rate, coupled with the exaggeration of TV dramas and the numerous marriages of relatives and friends around them, urban young people no longer view marriage as "sacred", and men and women have their own differences. There are reasons for fear of marriage.

Men who are afraid of marriage are often like Mr. Wu, who are afraid of being trapped by a woman and being in charge of everything, with no freedom at all. Another crux in their minds is the fear of taking responsibility and doubts about their ability to shoulder the burden of the family. The pressure in their lives has been magnified, and the thought of earning money and paying for a house is a big headache for them. Issues such as financial responsibilities, housework burdens, and the loyalty of lovers after marriage make them fearful of marriage. Therefore, many men would rather choose other ways to have sex with their girlfriends. They were together, but they kept silent about marriage.

Women who are afraid of marriage are mostly natural idealists, looking forward to a perfect life. Even if they hate getting married, what they want is more of the ceremony and symbolic meaning of getting married. Once marriage really comes up, they will inevitably panic. White-collar beauties no longer need to find a man to be their long-term meal ticket. Their own income can still support themselves and their parents.

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Find a pair of shoes that fit your feet

Every fairy tale ends abruptly with "the prince and the princess living happily together." Every fairy tale does not have the courage to describe the trivial things that the prince and princess will do after they get married, including food, rice, oil, salt, water, electricity and gas. The prince will find that the princess starts to check on him in the name of his wife. The princess also found that the prince had lost the romance when he was in love. Marriage is not a fairy tale, it is responsibility and the courage to take responsibility.

Who could have predicted that the life of a married woman would be like that of a prince and a princess. Maybe a man who looked like a prince yesterday would turn into a bad old man the next day!

As the classic saying goes: Marriage is like a pair of shoes. Only you know whether it pinches or rubs your feet. If you refuse to wear shoes, you may be able to avoid bleeding blisters because the shoes do not fit your feet, but you may also step on nails while walking barefoot and bleed, causing pain to the deepest part of your heart.

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