Nowadays, with the development of society, most people's ideas have gradually become more open. Especially for women, fewer and fewer women are virgins when they get married. According to a large number of surveys in recent years Analysis shows that there are many extreme concepts and ideas about the psychological motivations of women having sex before marriage.

Women’s motivations for premarital sex

1. Pursue the so-called "new" way of love

Some young people mistakenly believe that the way of love in the new era is to have sex at every turn. Under the control of the trendy mentality, they quickly moved from first love to passionate love, and from marginal sexual behavior to core sexual behavior. A survey found that 44.67% of women had had multiple sexual relations within six months, 50.33% of them expressed willingness, and 80.33% believed it was a personal matter.

2. Advocate for various concepts of sexual freedom

In recent years, some young people have blindly admired various Western concepts of sexual freedom and have a strong sense of self-consciousness about breaking through the so-called traditional sexual moral concepts. In the survey, 32.67% of women believed that "chastity is not very important", and 19.7% of women did not care at all after sexual intercourse, saying "that's all" and so on. As soon as their ideas changed, their behaviors changed accordingly. When their love was still at a stage where they didn't know how to control the boat of life rationally, they were burned by desire and had sex that shouldn't have happened prematurely.

Some have sex with their boyfriends periodically, and some have a premonition that they will never get married, but their special relationship remains the same. Distorted sexual concepts make distorted sexual behavior out of control.

3. Sex has gradually torn away the veil of concealment

For some young women, it is no longer that they are "disloyal" and ashamed to talk about sex, but that talking about sexual desire is as easy and normal as talking about appetite. However, due to the fact that many books and periodicals focus on the introduction of organs and sexual life content, there is a lack of education on sexual psychology and sexual ethics. In addition, there are more and more sexual aesthetic scenes in movies and television, and the phenomena of waist-to-shoulder, hugging, and kissing are often reflected in the streets and streets. As you can see, this cultural atmosphere deepens and actualizes the vague awareness and curiosity about sex in girlhood. They want to try and explore for themselves, so that during the relationship, they sometimes proactively and curiously propose or refuse sexual requests made by men. The survey showed that 64.3% of women had sexual intercourse out of curiosity, only to regret it when they had to abort the pregnancy.

4. I am grateful for my boyfriend’s admiration and love for me

Although they also understand that women's chastity is very important, they cannot hold on to their defense line under the constant agitation of their boyfriends' admiration and love. When your boyfriend makes a sexual request, you worry that rejection will hurt his heart, so you treat your boyfriend's sexual request as a reward. This type of situation accounted for 18.3% in the survey. I don't have the feeling of this shop in Guocun, and I take the initiative in the love process. However, for some men, the more proactive the woman is, the higher his self-esteem will be, and he may even feel worried about the woman. In order to show their sincerity, some women hurriedly pledge themselves to each other.

5. Upgrade your love relationship

Many young women regard "sex" as a measure of love, believing that only sex can maintain and develop love. Under the control of this idea of ​​​​sexuality, they give all of themselves too quickly.

6. Maintain an engaged relationship

A survey in Beijing showed that 90.7% of the young men and women who had premarital sex were clearly engaged, but due to various reasons, such as lack of housing, financial difficulties, not working together, and being under the legal minimum age for marriage, Wait, I can't get married for a long time. In order to maintain this engagement relationship, both parties often have sex.

7. Understand your boyfriend’s sexual function

Research points out that this type of motivation is more common among older, unmarried people. They deeply feel that it is difficult to choose a spouse, and they also hope to be happy after marriage, so they are cautious about marriage. They are willing to have sexual intercourse with their satisfied lovers before marriage to understand each other's sexual function.