Many women always think that after they get married, their husband is mine and they allow me to do whatever I want. He must always be under my nose. In fact, this often results in resistance from men... Love lies in choice, but also in careful maintenance. When women pray for happy love, they need to check their own behavior. Love can only be given to those who deserve love, not necessarily those who desire love!

What Women Need to Know: 9 Stupid Things That Will Destroy Your Marriage

1. Tie a man to his belt

Marriage between a man and a woman does not mean that the man wishes to lose his freedom. On the contrary, men want their home to be a haven for rest, where they can take a rest when they are tired. No man wants to live quietly at home forever. It is a man's nature to venture into the world and find the feeling of being a man in the process of conquering the world. Many women interfere severely with men's activities, making it difficult for men to move forward.

2. Love your man, hate his family

Although a man enters the marriage hall with a woman amid the blessings of his family, he will never forget the other woman who gave birth to him. Many women think that after marrying a man, he should be theirs. This is a big mistake. Many women compete with their men's mothers and sisters for affection, leading to a thousand-year-old mother-in-law-daughter-in-law war, which causes men great pain.

3. Thinking that if you control a man’s money, you can control his heart

Women seem to be naturally interested in money. It is normal for women to be afraid that men will look for women outside. However, women think that by controlling a man's wallet, they can control his behavior. Controlling a man can only be a dream. If a man wants to hide some private money, it is very simple. A woman's deduction of money will only increase the man's resentment.

4. Peep into men’s privacy like a spy

Everyone has their own privacy, and they don’t want this secret to be discovered by anyone. Many women try every possible means to find out whether men are in contact with their ex-girlfriends, and they frequently spy on men's emails, phone calls, and text messages. Sometimes I find some questions and ask them frequently, always pushing the man into the corner, and I have to ask the ugly Yin Mao. At this time, the man is like a prisoner. This is how some men cheat.

5. Thinking that men are like towering trees and everything will be fine if you marry a man

Nowadays, many women hope to find a good man, hoping that they can live a life with no worries about food and clothing, and have enough food to eat. In fact, for women who cannot stand on their own, as youth goes by, men's interest and sexual interest will become lower and lower, and the chance of losing favor will increase.

6. Treat men as your own sons

In the balance of love, men and women are equal. But many women interfere strictly with men, sometimes managing and demanding men like their sons. To a certain extent, this is a contempt for the humanity of men.

From another perspective, it is true that women have serious psychological problems. Men need care, but men need respect even more. Men never forget their dignity for a moment. This is why people often say that a man has gold at his knees. Women must regard their men as men and give him due respect and dignity. This is not only a requirement of love, but also a requirement of human nature.

7. If you can’t control your mouth, your husband becomes a machine for you to vent your anger

There are three women in one play. Where there are many women, there is a lot of right and wrong. This phenomenon shows that women’s mouths can easily cause trouble. A woman cannot vent her anger on her man because of her emotional changes or because she has no place to vent. This will only increase the man's resentment. Although men have the obligation to comfort their women, needless venting of anger is in vain. In times of pain, a woman's tears are a thousand times better than a woman's mouth. Why use tears to arouse a man's sympathy?

8. Ask your husband a thousand times if he loves you

Women like to hear men say "I love you." But men don't express love in the way women often want them to. So some women are very coquettish in front of men, hoping that men can say this sentence, and some women even force men to say this sentence. Men sometimes say "I love you" painfully and against their will, but their inner world is saying "I love you". I hate you so much, you tire me out so much!”

9. Not paying attention to protecting the secret of one’s figure and excessively exposing one’s body

A woman's body is the biggest magic weapon to attract men. Nowadays, many women are trying their best to increase the height of their breasts and increase the depth of their cleavage. But when at home, many women don't pay much attention to their bodies. In fact, this is the biggest misunderstanding of a woman. When a woman shows her beautiful figure outside, it can only attract meaningless head turns, but at home, it attracts the admiration of her man.

However, how many women can do this after getting married? Many women dress like women selling vegetables on the street at home. Can men not be offended?

A few words that damage the relationship between husband and wife

The first sentence: Without me, you would not be where you are today!

Subtext: Relying on your own little ability, there is no hope of becoming a successful person, and it all depends on my wife’s painstaking training!

Analysis: Love is first of all a kind of respect. If you don’t respect him, how can you cherish him? If your contribution comes from willing love, then you are not in the mood to care about gains and losses; if you have begun to care about your contribution, it means that your love is not enough. At this time, you can calculate, but you only need to know it well. You must not go to collect debts openly and justly. It will only accelerate the evaporation of your already precarious love.

Second sentence: I was bullied again in the company.

Subtext: Husband, you are so useless, let your wife go out and show off and suffer!

Analysis: Women always like to take their grievances from the company home and share them, while men are just the opposite. So the following situation often happens - women keep complaining at home, but men say nothing or even seem to ignore it. In fact, women just need to listen, need love, and need men's attention. However, this inappropriate method will only increase the psychological burden on men. It's better to go shopping with your confidante, scold the boss, and then go home when you feel calmer. I understand, the company belongs to others, but the man belongs to me. Being scolded as a punching bag will not do me any good at all.

The third sentence: Who do you love more, me or your mother?

Subtext: There are constant conflicts between me and her. You have to show your attitude. If you support me, you have to oppose her!

Analysis: Only when you love each other can you think about each other, not only for you and him, but also for your mother-in-law. Love is mutual. Only when you love her and trust her can this emotion be fed back to yourself. Therefore, if you treat your mother-in-law as a lover instead of a love rival, you will not ask such questions.

The fourth sentence: I want to leave you and leave this home.

Subtext: I shouldn’t have married you in the first place, and it’s not too late to take the medicine to regret it now.

Analysis: This sentence, which lacks a sense of family responsibility, will make him have wild imaginations, and will cause cracks in your relationship. After the quarrel, turn around and leave, which will make the trivial matters become impossible to end. Even after reconciliation, a rational man will convince himself to reduce his love for you because it is not secure enough.