Sex is the sublimation of love between two people, but this does not mean that as long as there is passion, you can have sex. Laura Berman, a famous American hermaphroditist, pointed out that smart sexual behavior requires considering some factors in advance so that you will not feel bad after sex or even have health and emotional risks. If you want to have sex with the person you like, it is necessary to make the following eight preparations.

1. Your body and mind are mature enough to be responsible for your sexual behavior. Modern young people generally mature prematurely, and the average age of first sexual intercourse is younger than that of previous generations. According to relevant surveys in the United States, the current global average age of first sexual intercourse is 17.7 years old. Experts point out that the body must first mature during sex. Premature sex will cause harm to the body and even affect future fertility. Secondly, you must be mentally mature during sex and be able to view and understand sexual relationships correctly to avoid having a bad attitude towards sex.

2. Confirm that the other party is unmarried or has no dating partner. Your sincerity doesn't mean the other person is equally sincere. If you accidentally have sex with a married person, you are likely to unintentionally get into complicated situations, be blamed for it, and feel emotionally cheated.

3. In addition to appearance, there are many things that attract you to the other person. "Appearance" is important, but in addition to physical attraction, you should also have common hobbies and topics. Otherwise, even if sexual relations occur, the relationship will not last long.

4. Take good contraceptive and disease prevention measures. This is a matter of self-interest and altruism. Wearing a condom is the simplest way to avoid pregnancy and disease and make you more relaxed during sex.

5. Both parties are willing to do so, rather than using sexual threats. Sex should be consensual between you and me. Never threaten the other person with sex, such as saying, "If you don't have sex with me, you don't love me." Real sex should be the sublimation of feelings and mutual enjoyment between both parties.

6. This is not the first time you have met. Although "one-night stand" is talked about more and more, it is not a good thing. The United States conducted a survey of 1,743 people who had had one-night stands and found that most people, regardless of men or women, blamed themselves for it and had a negative evaluation of the person they had a relationship with. It is not a good thing for a man and woman in love to have sex with each other for the first time.

7. Doing so conforms to your own moral standards. In terms of sex, everyone has their own moral values. Some people think that sex should happen after marriage, and some people think that sex can happen after half a year of dating. No matter what, try to follow your own moral standards so that you don't feel regretful and regretful after sex.

8. Materially relatively stable. Money cannot buy love, but it can affect a person's sexual behavior. For example, people may have more impulsive sexual behavior when they are rich, and they may want to relieve anxiety through sex when they are poor. Therefore, it's best to be in a more stable financial situation when you have sex.