Women’s misunderstanding about premarital sex 1: Pursuing the so-called “new” way of love

Premarital sex is a product of the 1990s in China. Some people believe that the way to change love in the 1990s was to have sex at every turn. Under the control of the trendy mentality, they quickly moved from first love to passionate love, and from marginal sexual behavior to core sexual behavior. Fascinating hugs, kisses, and caresses arouse strong impulses of sexual physiological instincts, making it difficult for reason to resist.

According to my country's sexual ethics, the most intimate form of sexual behavior between men and women during love can only be kissing, snuggling, and caressing. Sexual intercourse can only occur under the condition that the marriage relationship is protected by law. Random "fashionable" behavior is a sign of a lack of responsibility.

Women’s misunderstanding about premarital sex 2: advocating various concepts of sexual freedom

With the influx of Western cultural thoughts, my country's sexual culture concepts are becoming more and more liberal, even more open than abroad. Therefore, some young women think, "Now that they are mature, satisfying their own desires is a physiological need." Some say, "Just want to be happy with your own love," and some say, "What are you afraid of when you get pregnant? Sex is not sinful." "A woman is not considered a complete woman unless she has had an abortion."

When a woman has sex, this "cancer" will continue to spread. Some have sex with their boyfriends periodically, while others have one-night stands here and there. Distorted sexual concepts make distorted sexual behavior out of control, resulting in irresponsible consequences. Not only is it irresponsible to oneself, but also to the next generation.

Misunderstanding 3 of women’s pre-marital sex: Satisfying curiosity and exploration of “sex”

In today's era, sex is no longer mysterious, and people don't need to be secretive about it. For many women, it can be said to be a must-talk topic in daily life. People hugging each other's waist and shoulders, or hugging and kissing on the streets and streets are often seen. This cultural atmosphere makes the hazy awareness and curiosity about sex in girls' period deeper and more realistic.

From the beginning of my understanding of sex, I am no longer satisfied with what is introduced in books and magazines, what is witnessed on the film and television screen, on the street, in the entertainment industry, and under the moonlight. Instead, I want to try and explore it myself. Actively and curiously propose or do not reject the man's sexual request. The survey shows that 64.3% of women had sexual intercourse out of curiosity, only to regret it when they had to abort the pregnancy.

Women’s misunderstanding about premarital sex 4: Be grateful for your boyfriend’s admiration and love for you

"I love him, and I am willing to give everything I have to him, including my body. I want to hug him naked and feel each other's breathing." Many women who have sex before marriage think that this kind of love is the only way to achieve this kind of love. He is the greatest, so much so that he gives himself to men easily.

Love does not necessarily have to be expressed through sex. Sex is often a physiological need, while love is a spiritual need, although love is inseparable from sex. Women need to figure out this relationship, and whether your boyfriend is good to you, or the starting point is just sex.

Misunderstanding 5 of women having sex before marriage: Eliminating their boyfriend’s worries about themselves

After many girls reject their boyfriend's sexual request, the man will say: "You don't really love me." After the woman hears it, she immediately takes off her clothes and devotes herself. Some people hurriedly commit themselves to each other in order to show how sincere and loving they are, and some people also adopt this so-called "can tie a man's heart" sexual behavior in order not to be abandoned by the man. In fact, it is immature to do so. And unwise.

When such a woman is abandoned by a man, the woman often feels that her body is already unclean and it doesn’t matter what happens. Therefore, she may become sexually promiscuous in life and become emotionally degenerate. , to the point of ruining a lifetime of happiness.

Misunderstanding 6 of women having sex before marriage: Escalating the love relationship

Love is upgraded step by step, holding hands, kissing, and hugging the waist. . . . . . Anyone who has been in love should be aware of this process. Many women believe that having sex before marriage is a procedural requirement of love. It can confirm the relationship early, upgrade and deepen the love, and strengthen the cohesion of both parties. Under the control of this idea of ​​​​sexuality, they give all of themselves too quickly.

Love does not need to rely on sex to heat up, but love needs to rely on sex to maintain. What heats up is your and his heart. What heats up the soul is not the reproductive organs, but the little things in life.