The most exciting news in the media some time ago was that Andy Lau finally admitted to his long-standing relationship and told everyone that he got married last year and made his underground love affair a reality.

A female friend I know was very sad when she mentioned this. She has the same fate of long-distance love, but her long-term relationship ended in breakup.

At the age of thirty, she was very helpless: "I was obedient to him, worked hard and never complained, but in the end he said 'I don't feel anything anymore' and turned away."

"What's even more irritating is that someone told me that he fell in love with a woman. She ignored him, but he seemed to be obsessed with chasing her. This is really unreasonable!" Her tone said. A big exclamation point!

For many years, as long as her boyfriend makes a phone call, no matter when and where, women will drop what they are doing and rush to his side. When she went shopping, all she bought in her bag were men's clothes. Her explanation was: "I can't help it, all I can think about is him!" What's even more amazing is that because her boyfriend often travels on business, she also takes good care of her boyfriend's father. Mother and family.

You can imagine the deep sense of loss in her heart after giving so wholeheartedly, but in exchange for being ungrateful and unappreciated by the other party:

"I'm so good to him, why doesn't he want me?"

Well, the problem most likely lies in the word "good".

Emotionally, men are hunters by nature, and they like the thrill and excitement of chasing and competing. So when a woman compromises and is too "nice" to him, most men will find it boring and lose interest.

A thirty-five-year-old woman once told me that she had dated several boyfriends, but no one ever proposed to her. In order to attract more male attention, she wore low-cut and sexy clothes. clothes, and as long as the man asked, she would be happy to take off her clothes and offer herself faster and faster. However, doing so only caused the man to leave her faster.

Let’s review the excitement formula of emotion: excitement = attraction + resistance. You should be able to understand the truth. Emotions that are easily obtained often make people "feel no longer feeling".

Compared to good women who are obedient and willing to compromise, the new breed of "bad women" is indeed more popular.

But don’t get me wrong, this is not about women with evil thoughts starting to wave the flag, and no one wants you to start using tricks and scheming to play with other people’s feelings. The new breed of "bad women" refers to those who face... When it comes to men, they are smart women who know how to value themselves instead of focusing on the other person.

The reason why bad women are "bad" is because they will not be obedient to men. However, just like the new usage of the English word bad, when Americans say "You are bad" , in the new century, it is also a new kind of praise.

The new breed of "bad women" will make hunter-like men excited, because they have the following charming qualities:

1. Have a deep understanding of themselves: A bad woman knows her own strengths and weaknesses, knows where her charm lies, and can use it wisely.

2. Maintain financial and emotional independence: A bad woman has her own job and does not intend to rely on men for support; and a bad woman’s emotions will not be affected by a man’s behavior. If he does not call Come on, no problem, girl, I'll find something to do on my own, and I won't complain to men.

3. Know how to hint but not take the initiative: A bad woman will not take the initiative to show love, let alone take the initiative to devote herself. A smart bad woman knows how to use hints to let men actively pursue her.

4. Pay attention to yourself: A bad woman will not ask a man about his past relationships or compare herself with his previous girlfriends. A bad woman is confident and elegant. What she cares about is how to show her beautiful self.

5. Be happy to be yourself: A "good" woman is devoted to pleasing a man and sacrifices herself to be the perfect woman in his mind; while a bad woman does something and doesn't do something, and insists on living a true life. Only in this way can you be more capable of loving men because you love yourself.

The era of good women has passed. A new breed of bad women are elegant and independent, confident and mysterious. They can make men's hearts flutter and produce sweet actions that build long-term relationships!

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