Most women are not satisfied with their first sexual intercourse, and may experience discomfort or even pain. But most women can adapt to it quickly, but a few are unable to have normal sexual life due to various mental or physical reasons, which seriously affects the relationship between lovers and even causes infertility. These women mainly present with fear of sexual intercourse, inability to penetrate, vaginismus, and dyspareunia.

The specific manifestations of the four major psychological barriers for women on their first night:

1. Fear of sexual intercourse

Involuntarily experiencing a state of fear. Expressing feelings of panic, anxiety and resistance.

Most of them have suffered sexual trauma and mental shock (such as rape, sexual abuse, etc.) before formal sexual intercourse, or experienced severe pain during their first sexual intercourse. There are also a few who have received inappropriate sexual education and exaggerated the obscenity of sex. , pain and harm to the body.

2. Vaginismus

The pelvic floor muscles and vagina experience spasmodic contraction and cannot relax, often accompanied by whole-body stiffness. The penis is stuck and difficult to pull out. This situation is rare.

Mostly it is caused by the woman being too nervous and causing pain during insertion. The treatment method is psychological therapy, gradual vaginal caressing and the use of lubricants, and if necessary, antispasmodics can be used beforehand.

3. Vaginal malformation, congenital absence of vagina, transvaginal septum, etc.

For those with hymen atresia, after puberty, because menstrual blood cannot be discharged and flows back into the pelvic cavity, periodic lower abdominal pain will occur, with intervals equivalent to the menstrual cycle. These women are unable to have sexual intercourse, but the treatment is simple and requires only hymenotomy.

For those who are congenitally without a vagina, most of the uterus is also underdeveloped. Not only are they unable to have sexual intercourse, they are also infertile. If the ovarian function is normal, there will be no discomfort. Artificial vaginoplasty is feasible to solve their sexual life problems.

For patients with complete vaginal septum, menstrual blood cannot be discharged and periodic lower abdominal pain may occur; for patients with incomplete vaginal septum, there may be no symptoms, but the penis cannot be inserted deeply during sexual intercourse. Caiyue may have incomplete vaginal septum. Transvaginal septum. In this case, transverse septum resection may be possible.

4. Don’t understand sexual intercourse

Due to lack of sexual knowledge, I don’t know how to have sex

In the past, I even heard that someone actually had sex with their belly button, which made a big joke. However, in the modern information society, such couples are very rare.