The reason why men cannot reach orgasm is that regardless of impotence or premature ejaculation, men can achieve orgasm themselves except that they cannot satisfy the woman. When a man's sex life is too long, and he has to make it dark every time, but he still has no idea of ​​ejaculation, it is a sign that he cannot reach orgasm. The editor below will introduce the issue of men’s sex time.

While most women complain that their husbands are quick shooters, some women also complain that men are slow shooters, which makes them intolerable and miserable. It is true that about 8% of men have always had difficulty or too slow ejaculation. Every 20 to 30 minutes or even longer of ejaculation always makes their wives exhausted and makes their tempers more and more violent. In fact, their wives only need a few minutes, eleven or twelve minutes at most. Although they also speed up the ejaculation process by strengthening fantasies and other methods, the effect is very limited. Not to mention the wives of men who don’t ejaculate. Not only do they have a hard time, but they don’t even realize their dreams of having children.

First of all, it depends on whether the conflict between the two parties is really because it lasts too long, or whether the man is persistent but does not perform well, that is, he does not really scratch the "itch" of the woman, which of course will not make the other party happy. . Because these men often don't know how to savor each other's rose-like fragrance and keep up with each other's rhythm. They only focus on themselves and spend all their time on how to achieve their own climax, without taking into account the feelings of the other person.

To sing the duet of sex life well, the cooperation of both parties is far more important than individual skills. Only when a man is excellent at what he does, that is, when he gains great motivation from paying attention to, savoring, inducing, and feeling the other person's reaction, can he open the gate to his orgasm as early as possible. In the effort a man puts in, he actually shows his attractiveness and charm to the other party.

Secondly, men may have difficulty climaxing. Middle-aged men are especially prone to this problem, while young men rarely have this difficulty. After middle age, men's erectile ability decreases, and the hardness of the penis after erection is poor, so the friction stimulation caused by twitching is not strong enough, and they often need stronger stimulation. In addition to physical problems, it is also important whether the relationship between the two parties is coordinated and tacit understanding, so solving this problem requires the joint efforts of both parties.

Skills need to be honed, and practice can increase your abilities. Men's difficulty in orgasm is like facing a deep ditch, requiring a brave leap. The more timid you are, the harder it is to leap into the air. The more you think about it, the heavier the psychological baggage will be, and the worse the situation will be. At this time, you can lower the difficulty first and don't expect success all at once. It is necessary to create an environment without much psychological pressure. You can start jumping from a narrower and shallower trench, then you will naturally not be nervous.

Usually, you start by masturbating by yourself, and gradually explore and master the techniques of accelerating sexual response; then you do it in front of your partner, who can watch from a distance, to a close observer, to directly participate in and help the man masturbate; and finally, you can do it in front of your partner. The partner can help the man masturbate with the penis close to the vaginal opening. When the man is about to ejaculate, he immediately inserts the penis into the vagina and then pumps until he ejaculates. This step-by-step approach to training is often an effective solution.

Finally, we also need to consider the issue of adverse drug reactions. For example, antidepressants often have the effect of inhibiting ejaculation. If the patient's long-term medication problem can be ruled out, we should consider what factors can catalyze and accelerate the male orgasmic response. What kind of posture? What kind of fantasy? What is the atmosphere of the environment (is it safe and secluded enough to not be disturbed)? Moreover, these measures are also willing to be accepted and assisted by partners, so there are no uniform prescriptions and procedures.

If a man really lacks the ability to control, then he will be disorganized and make a mess in everything, and climax is indeed the most difficult to control problem. Don't hold yourself back, scream when you feel pleasure, and let it be released boldly. Men should tell each other about their feelings of fear or discomfort to gain their understanding and support. However, if the other person has been domineering and condescending in the past and present, he should consider whether such communication is safe.

The above is the normal time for men to have sex. When men have sex, they should only feel comfortable and stimulating, without any pain. When men feel that their sexual organs are abnormal, they need to check their sexual organs in time to avoid danger.