There are a lot of discussions on the Internet about the issue of cheating between men and women. Obviously, the cheating rate of men is much higher than that of women, and men always find ridiculous reasons to excuse this behavior. Some people even blame women for cheating. In fact, when it comes to cheating, women have more and more sufficient reasons.

The number one reason why women cheat:

Find the feeling of being cared for and loved. Most women play the role of caregivers in the family, taking care of men and children. In fact, women need more care both psychologically and physically. Don’t you see that married women are more likely to age and become haggard than women who never marry?

The second biggest reason why women cheat:

Looking for the deep affection of the past, you are not sexually interested in me, but there are many people who are sexually interested in me. After a woman gets married, she will be more caring to her man than before marriage. Once a man gets married, he often loses his passion and becomes lazy towards his woman.

The third reason why women cheat:

It is easier for women to cheat than for men. Women face more temptations than men in their lives. Any pretty woman should have countless experiences of being entangled by men from childhood to adulthood, before and after marriage.

The fourth reason why women cheat:

stress reliever. Most women in China have to go out to work to support their families. When they return home, they have to do countless housework and educate their children. They often experience greater pressure than men.

The fifth reason why women cheat:

The soul is lonely. Women often stop making friends with the same sex as soon as they get married. It’s not that women value sex over friends, but that work and family take up too much time, making friendship a very luxury thing. Men have to get together with friends every now and then, and go out for drinks from time to time. The only women who get massages to relieve stress and stay at home to look after their children are lonely women.

The sixth reason why women cheat:

No one is watching, so it is safer. As soon as a woman gets married, she will immediately feel a sense of crisis. Whether consciously or unconsciously, she will closely monitor her husband and not give him a chance to cheat. Men are often overconfident in themselves, thinking that the wife they take home is like a pig they brought back from the market, and will never betray them. Yu Shang can go out with peace of mind to have a good time, drink and sing every night.

The seventh reason why women cheat:

Economic health. As long as you have a slightly attractive woman, as long as you use some pretentious words, there will be a lot of men coming to your door, willing to serve you. Unlike men, who want to have an affair and have to spend money to find young ladies or prostitutes, the cost of having a mistress is even greater, and most men cannot afford it.

The eighth reason why women cheat:

High safety factor. There is a great risk for a man to cheat, prostitutes are prone to infectious diseases, and there are so few women who are willing to be mistresses for nothing else. They are basically extinct. They often want to break into the man's wife in a short time, causing you to be ruined and your wife to be separated. Women who cheat often don’t have to worry about this.

The ninth reason why women cheat:

There are physiological advantages. There is another reason that men are least willing to hear, and that is that women’s physiological structure is actually more advantageous. Women can easily deal with several men without showing fatigue, but it is actually difficult for men to deal with two women. If you don't see it, coquettish women are often more beautiful, while playboy men are often exhausted. A woman can still satisfy her husband if she has an affair, but most men have an affair and his wife basically doesn't have to.

Men and women have different reasons for cheating

1. Different purposes

Extramarital affairs between men and women mostly have sex as the direct purpose. What they seek is fresh sensory stimulation.

Women's affair is mostly for love. What they seek is the spiritual comfort that their husbands cannot provide, and the romantic feeling that was once lost. They believe that physical contact is a sign of strong feelings between both parties. Some women advocate platonic emotional encounters.

2. Different understandings of loyalty

Men generally believe that as long as they are emotionally faithful to their wives, it's okay to occasionally act out. Therefore, men who have affairs like to use money or power to control their lovers, so as to avoid being attached to them.

Women believe that the concept of eternal life only refers to the body. As long as you are physically faithful to your marriage, spiritual cheating can be forgiven.

3. Different attitudes towards marriage

Women who have extramarital affairs generally feel disappointed and dissatisfied with their marriages. The indifference and incomprehension of their spouses make their hearts empty and their passion has no place to rest. Once you encounter the right emotion, you will take risks.

Women after an affair become increasingly dissatisfied with their marriages. They are deeply attracted to their lovers and can no longer maintain their sex life with their husbands. Therefore, women's cheating is mostly the prelude to divorce.

On the contrary, the vast majority of male extramarital affairs believe that marriage is very satisfying. They just seek fresh feelings and satisfy physical desires. Because they feel ashamed of their wives, they appear to be more family-oriented. If nothing happens, men are happy to deal with two women.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that it is difficult for women to become the beneficiaries of extramarital affairs. If what men get from extramarital affairs is still an olive, and sometimes it is fashionable to chew a hint of sweetness from the bitter taste, what women get from extramarital affairs is often just a bitter fruit. The taste of yellow lotus in their mouths makes them excited. Not to mention the suffering, some may even make them think why they would have done it if they had known it would happen