The birth of the term "second man" naturally uses the best men as a reference. What is the best man? The book lists a few, including Tony Leung, who played the role of Zhou Yu in the film "Red Cliff". In this way, the image of the best man is very specific: handsome, rich, elegant, talented, not only elegant, but also with the restrained quality of a mature man.

Such a perfect man is naturally something you can meet but cannot seek. Many girls have no choice but to settle for the next best thing and reluctantly choose the "second man". The shortcomings of the "second man" are obvious, either a little arrogant, a little arrogant, or a little tacky. In this way, an operation to save the "second man" was staged vigorously, with a clear goal-to make him move closer to the best man.

I wonder how many men would appreciate such a rescue? If you think about it carefully, this is a bit unreasonable. Who is born without some shortcomings? Is it necessary to build everything according to the standards of a top-notch man? To use a classic line: "Are you in love with the real me, or in love with your imaginary love?"

Think about it nonsensically: even if a top-notch man like Tony Leung is Isn’t it necessarily what many women want? Such demeanor and achievements are indeed dazzling enough. But those are just illusory shadows. Without close contact, it is impossible to say whether they can get along well with each other.

Distance creates beauty. This sentence is more applicable to the best men. Generally speaking, the definition of a great man will definitely not be defined by the woman who is closest to him. Because of the closeness and understanding, you will be familiar with his unknown little problems. Even if I think he is perfect, it is because of tolerance, not because the man himself is impeccable.

In fact, all the best men have certain flaws. If a woman falls in love with a man, no matter whether the man was the "best" or the "second best" before, he will always be her most beloved baby. She will use that love to tolerate him, instead of thinking about what level to give him, to show that she loves tastefully.

Sometimes I think about it, if all the men in this world were top men, then this world would be quite boring. Just like the technique of leaving blank space in Chinese painting, the relationship between men and women also requires leaving blank space. If the starting point is too perfect, it will lose a lot of the fun of running in.

From this point of view, there is really no need to expect or fantasize about the best men. Anyone, in any love, will find a position that suits them best. These really have nothing to do with whether the person you meet must be a top-notch man.

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