People say that spring is the season of love, and they are right. In that spring last year, I also met a man who loved me very much. Of course, the winter before that, I had just ended my first four-year relationship, and the pain lingered in my heart. At this time, he came to me and said, "Accept me, I will make you warm."

So in the spring, he and I began a warm love.

Maybe this second relationship started too hastily. In fact, I am not really ready to fall in love with the second man, because I still can't forget my first boyfriend for a long time. Although we hurt each other during the four years we were together; although he was far less good to me than one-tenth of my current boyfriend, I could not forget him and always kept it secret from my second boyfriend and my first love. The lotus root is broken and the silk is connected.

But now that I think about it, I really regret it. My second boyfriend was really kind to me. Even if I said I was hungry at 12 o'clock in the middle of the night, he would not hesitate to take me to take a taxi to find something to eat all night long. a fast food shop. Occasionally when I get sick, he is even more nervous than my parents. He buys a lot of various Chinese and Western medicines and coaxes me to swallow them one by one. In short, everything he did to me was incomparable to his ex-boyfriend.

However, the only thing I am dissatisfied with him is: our personalities are quite different. He is introverted and quiet, and likes to be alone and meditate quietly; while I am lively and active, and I only like to make friends. A group of people having fun. I think it's difficult for him to integrate into my life, but he thinks I can arrange my time more reasonably... For this reason, I will make trouble with him, but he always tolerates my bad temper! However, once a good-tempered person gets angry, the nine-headed ox often cannot bring him back. That's how he is. Of course, the fault was mine. During the time I was with him, I not only lost touch with my ex-boyfriend, but also had a closer relationship with another extroverted friend of the opposite sex beside me. Later, when this incident came to light, he became furious and expressed that it was completely unacceptable! He said that if I just couldn't let go of my ex-boyfriend, he could understand, after all, the relationship was there for many years, but what he didn't expect was that besides him, I had another new love, which he couldn't accept. Got it! He hopes that love must be loyal, and he doesn’t want half-hearted feelings!

Then he left, left our house, and took all his luggage with him. In the half month after he left, I was haunted by regret all the time. It was only at this moment that I realized that I was so reluctant to let go of him. I feel that I have lost the most precious love in my life...

I have tried to save it, but he told me that it is absolutely impossible, even if I am single for the rest of my life. Will come back to me again. He won't eat love's return grass because I hurt him from head to toe!

I am really desperate and unwilling to lose him like this, but is there still hope for him and me?

Enough is enough with the fussiness of love

The type of men that women in love always like best are: I can betray you, but you can’t betray me! I can punch and kick you, but after the beating, you have to say, "Honey, did your hand hurt?"

Woman, what confidence do you have to ask a man to be so willing to give in?

Of course, you can say it’s because he loves you! Love means tolerance! He should accept everything about you, good and bad, otherwise, what's the point of love? !

No, love is definitely not like this. Love is not about giving or enjoying, but about giving and then asking for equal value in return. Otherwise, one party will give foolishly and the other party will enjoy it beautifully. This kind of love will never last long!

But women never understand this. In the heart of a woman, she always hopes that a man will treat her as the air she needs to survive. Without her, he will die. Only this shows the preciousness and uniqueness of women. And everyone needs air, and they will try their best to get a little air. Men are not so stupid. Women love to defend love with fussiness, thinking it is a symbol of female dignity, but facts have proven that fussiness in love should be limited, because men's patience is also limited.

Everyone is the same, they are not afraid of hurting their body or mind, they are just afraid of hurting their heart. My heart is broken, everything is irreparable, even if we try to put it back together, there will always be cracks there. Therefore, even if you win him back today, you will never ask him to treat you as well as before, unconditionally and without restrictions... People who have been heartbroken will always learn to be good, and they will stay for themselves. In the future, I will not allow myself to pay as foolishly as before. And if you get back together with him, can you accept a man who is not as good to you as before?

Is it difficult? Everyone is like this, and the psychological gap from high to low is the most tortured. If you really love him and really want to save him, then before doing so, consider a question: Can I treat him as well as he used to treat me?

Think carefully before taking this multiple-choice question.

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