At first sight, it means as soon as you see it, and it means "quickly", "instantaneously", "immediately". As soon as the other person's appearance is reflected in your brain, it blends with the original "image of love" in your mind, and you react immediately. So familiar, so affectionate, so lovely. Unlike meeting a stranger, you must first carefully examine, observe, and even test them, and constantly get to know the other person and make a first impression to judge whether he or she is a good person or a bad person, whether the visitor is unkind or friendly, how safe you are, etc. Wait, and then you can gradually let go of interacting with them. But those who fall in love at first sight do not need this process. They fall in love with each other as soon as they meet, feel friendly and trust each other as soon as they meet, without thinking. Even they themselves don’t understand why they trust the other person so quickly and have a good impression of the other person. …

Ordinary love is generally not that fast. When you meet for the first time, you feel very fresh and will have a first impression. You can get some preliminary judgments from the other person's appearance, physical fitness, appearance, temperament and demeanor. In the meantime, the first glance Appearance is also important as seen. For example, the first thing a man sees is a very beautiful woman, and it is normal for him to fall in love with her. Because men have the same main aesthetic characteristics when looking at women. When they see a beautiful woman, almost all men will say that she is beautiful, and at the same time they will have admiration and good impression. Of course, this kind of admiration or good impression also occurs at first sight. However, this kind of love and affection is only a superficial affection. When you really fall in love with the other person, it is definitely not a matter of "first sight".

Love is a single-minded, very clear, one-way expression of love. This kind of love is deep and exclusive, that is, you have a special liking for him or her, and it is wholehearted. When you are convinced that the other person also falls in love with you, you will devote yourself wholeheartedly, regardless of everything, without hesitation. You will enter a state of intoxication, where you can't help but forget yourself and become crazy about it. You are highly sensitive to every move, word and deed of the other party, which will have a shocking impact on yourself, causing great emotional fluctuations.

Women’s various physiological reactions to love at first sight of the opposite sex

When a woman "falls in love at first sight" with a handsome, graceful man, this emotion of "I can't help but fall in love with him" actually contains a multi-faceted and multi-stage physiological response. At this time, the brain will adjust the woman's desire to the most exciting state. Recently, the American "Women's Health" magazine introduced to us various physiological reactions that occur in women at different times.

0-5 seconds. She suddenly saw a prince charming who made her excited. Before she even said hello to him, her brain had already processed the man's voice, facial features and pheromones (chemical substances released from the male body that can affect the opposite sex). related behaviors) were preprocessed. The stronger the smell of male hormones emitted from the male body, the stronger the smell of male hormones.

Sexual desire

The easier it is to be mobilized. At this moment, the brain begins to release large amounts of dopamine. This chemical creates a high, similar to the feeling you get after taking aphrodisiacs. At the same time, the part of the brain that processes negative emotions is suppressed, making it less likely for women to detect some of the man's other bad habits.

If a woman is in the ovulation period, she is more likely to be attracted to a man's masculine characteristics, such as a chiseled jaw and a deep voice; if she is in the menstrual period, a handsome man with a slightly softer temperament is more attractive to a woman.

In addition, the part responsible for memory deep in the female brain will record the man's every move and appearance in detail, secretly compare him with past lovers, and finally prompt: He looks just like me. The first man I fell in love with!

5 minutes. At this time, the woman's brain will ask the hormone control center to speed up and send a large number of chemical signals to the ovaries - this man makes me horny; it will also send signals to the adrenal glands to secrete adrenaline, causing the woman's heart to beat and the palms of her hands to beat. Sweating, creating intense focus on the man. At the same time, testosterone is secreted, which is often associated with aggressive and risk-taking behavior. Compared with men, women are a little shy in sexual provocation and find it difficult to initiate flirting first, so they need to use testosterone to aphrodisiac.

10 minutes. At this time, women will be intoxicated because their bodies are flooded with powerful adrenaline, dopamine and testosterone, and their brains will prompt the pituitary gland to secrete oxytocin, a hormone that promotes union between the sexes.

months. When a woman is completely infatuated with a man, her brain accelerates the production of nerve growth factor, a protein that enhances people's mental abilities. Sadly, however, nerve growth factor gradually declines to normal levels one year after a woman becomes infatuated with a man. The new passion generated when meeting again after a long separation will also trigger the adrenal glands to secrete stress hormones. However, this short-term stress hormone is different from the long-term chronic stress hormones secreted under normal conditions. It can make women become more tender-hearted. Water and obsession, and increases libido.

The top 10 places where you can easily fall in love at first sight

TV hosts who seem to have countless audiences, except for a few talented ones, find it difficult to transform their work relationship into a friendship relationship, and there are many older women. Most Chinese people only have family life and professional life, and lack social life and social interaction. Twenty years ago, people mainly relied on blind dates, and organizations often played the role of matchmakers. Today, both methods are scorned by young people. So where can you find it on your own?

1. "Matchmaker" Dinner

Friend of a friend – This is how most people meet their life partner. If you have a one-sided crush on him but haven't spoken to him much, don't be embarrassed and ask your friends to arrange a meeting for you right away.

2. Wedding/funeral/birthday wine/full moon wine/family party

Have you ever watched the classic "Four Weddings and a Funeral"? Traditional Chinese funerals don't seem to be suitable for creating romance, but weddings are absolutely fine. This is the wedding year, so single women should keep their eyes open.

3. Workplace

This is how nearly half of people meet their lifelong partner. Men and women in the same office are often unattractive because they are too familiar. They look beyond colleagues in different departments and branches, customers and suppliers, as well as all single men with working relationships.

4. "White-Collar Singles Club", "Guys and Dolls", "Dinner for 6", "8-Minute Speed ​​Dating" or other similar social organizations

Not so directly in the form of a blind date, but as an opportunity for singles to socialize. Even if you don't meet your ideal person, you can still make good friends, and they may introduce you to your lifelong partner in the future.

5. Business gathering

Charity gala/new product launch/certain anniversary/gallery reception, etc. You can take the initiative to introduce yourself and exchange business cards. Leave your phone number, EMAIL, and MSN so he can find you. If he hasn't asked you out within a week after you broke up, you can take the initiative to ask him out once. If he doesn't arrange a second time, he is not interested in you.

6. Bar

It is not recommended to go, especially the kind where the music is loud and you have to shout when you talk. Men you meet in a bar need to be questioned. According to statistics, only 1% of people get married after meeting in a bar.

7. Classroom

Take classes, recharge and get certificates, or just do it as a hobby. Your classmates at least have similar backgrounds and interests to you, are similar in age, and have a high proportion of like-minded people.

8. Network

Many examples of success and failure have been heard.

9. On the street

One of the most common plots in Korean and Japanese dramas, but rarely seen in real life, there is only one girlfriend around and encounters an Italian man courting him on the street in Thailand. Later I got married and now have a son and a daughter.

10. Blind date

If you don’t have the ability/courage/no time to try the above 9 options, then this is the only way left. There is no shame in going on a blind date. If you go on a blind date every week, it would be really delicious. Don’t be spoiled for choice.