Caressing, masturbation, oral sex and penetration...this is simply the sex package that modern couples consume in bed. Some may be worse, with extremely monotonous and boring sex lives. Even in France, which advocates romance and sexual freedom, according to statistics from sexologists, nearly one-third of couples barely have sex.

Food, color, and sex. Has sex really lost its appeal? If you take a closer look, you will find that couples have ignored the "innovation" of sexual life. They no longer make any efforts to keep sex fresh. Over time, of course, it will become tasteless. So in today's world where there are so many temptations, there are many stories about one-night stands and third parties. When men or women can't find fun with their lovers, they are eager to find passion with another person. Who doesn't want their love and sex to be unique and eternal? Just make some effort. Take a look at the tips below. Don’t let your sexual feast turn into a lunch box that’s hard to swallow. Your sexual taste buds need to be activated and developed.

One of the natural enemies of sex buds: lack of long-term imagination

Has your way of making love never changed? It has always been the traditional frontal way of making love. Same speed, rhythm and routine, even having sex while thinking about other things while facing the wall! Quickly change the pattern, and you will find that she bursts out with all her passion and enjoys the excitement of sex with you.

However, don’t clumsily imitate the male protagonist of a third-level movie, and don’t go to a sex shop to buy a lot. This will only scare her. Take it easy. Start with the sex position you usually use. Even in the most conservative frontal position, you can put a pillow under her waist so that you can penetrate deeper and stimulate greater stimulation.

You might as well try entering from behind her again, you will find that the feeling is really different. Use more tricks, follow the rules and remain the same, it will only make both parties lose interest.

The second natural enemy of sex buds: the bed (no matter how exquisite your bed is)

The first few times there are always wonderful surprises. At that time, any place is the best place for you to enjoy your passion, and nothing can stop you from the crazy idea of ​​becoming one. Now, you may be more accustomed to sneaking into the bed after coming out of the bathroom, trying your best to "seduce" her, hoping that she will have the same enthusiasm as you... Don't forget, it's best to strike while the iron is hot. Next time you kiss When you feel that she is restless, don't think about going back to the room. This will definitely ruin the rhythm. Just stay where your passion is: living room, kitchen, stair steps, chairs, couch. Sex can be had anywhere. For example, an armchair: you sit in the chair, and she straddles you with her back to you, her weight supported on the armrests of the chair. You can switch again, she sits with her legs apart and bent, and puts her hands on your hips, which will help your movements.

The third natural enemy of sex buds: an unshakable timetable

Once you find the best time to have sex, it becomes the same. Little do you know that your lover also has to force himself to adapt to you. Why not break the rules and throw away the time constraints?

Many men do not take advantage of their erections in the morning, when testosterone is more active than in the afternoon or even at night. Most people think that there is not enough time and there are a lot of things to deal with during the day... In fact, sometimes sex can play an anti-anxiety and excitement role. If you're really worried about not having enough time, there's no better way to start the day than with some caressing or oral sex. Even if you don't ejaculate because you don't have enough time, your unfulfilled desire will keep your urge going well into the night. Don't worry, she won't be satisfied either. What better way than this for two people to relive the mandarin duck dream at night!

The fourth natural enemy of sex buds: keeping time as accurately as a Swiss watch

Whether you move fast or slow, the time it takes you from impulse to satisfaction is roughly the same. Often, women want it to last longer. They may think this way because they are dissatisfied with the programmed "three steps" during sex: penetration, climax, and rest. Perhaps they are tactfully indicating that they have not had time to enjoy it yet... Sexology experts believe that sex with violent tendencies It can happen anywhere. Do it occasionally to break the unchanging way of making love and increase excitement and freshness. What is detrimental to a couple's relationship is routine. In daily life, short-term sex is no worse than long-term sex. It can relieve stress, quickly satisfy desires, and regenerate impulses.

Of course, don’t neglect stimulating the female partner’s clitoris to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. Sometimes a woman has fully enjoyed herself and does not necessarily want to continue having sex to the end. She may move her body away to express tactfully that she does not want it anymore.

The fifth natural enemy of sexual buds: the eclipse of sex

You believe that sexual desire will become weaker and weaker over time. If one day her breast enlargement is not as exciting to you as the sunset, then is normal. Ultimately, it’s still a matter of lack of curiosity. The explanation of sexology experts is: when people stop looking for excitement and no longer "seduce" each other, sex will soon lose its charm. Only by constantly gaining pleasure can desire be cultivated.

Always waiting for the ideal moment to have sex can also be a hindrance in sex. The majority of couples (56%) admit that they only think about having sex when they feel particularly good with each other. Force yourself a little! When the passionate love period has passed, it is difficult to have the most ideal conditions at the same time. If you are not hungry, sit down at the dining table and your appetite will come as you eat. This may seem too simplistic, but it’s exactly what sexologists say all the time. So you should understand that nothing is guaranteed when it comes to sex!

French sexology experts say

Why do we feel monotonous after being together for a long time?

The gap between the fantasy of long-lasting, passionate sex and reality is the first obstacle that arises between couples. To overcome this obstacle, we need to constantly reshape the relationship. The second obstacle arises from the huge difference between men and women... He does not understand her "heartlessness" and does not understand that he should constantly re-seduce her. In terms of sex, women need a suitable loving atmosphere. When he has an impulse, he should stimulate her and guide her, and he should not just be satisfied with his own venting. For her, routine is just a sex killer.

Why do couples have difficulty having sex?

We imagine that there is a lot of freedom in the way we have sex, but this is not the case. Usually people go into it very nervously and hope to perform well. But when things don’t go as planned, a sense of frustration and guilt can arise.

The road to sex is not always smooth sailing. Even if your sex life is relatively harmonious, will there still be situations where you dare not tell her your long-standing thoughts? Do you know her restricted areas? Do you know your restricted areas? Is there enough tacit understanding between you for her to fully satisfy your desires? To find out the answers to these questions, take the test below. Do it alone first, then do it with her. Maybe there is already a volcano of passion between you, but it has not been awakened yet...

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