Some female compatriots concluded that the most favorite thing a man says before marriage is: "I love you." And the most favorite thing a man says after marriage is: "Don't wait for me." The same "Three Character Sutra" applies to women It sounds very different in my heart. I remember back then, because of his vow of "I only hope that we will grow up together", the woman married him with tears in her eyes, looking forward to the unparalleled marriage that "the mountains have no mausoleums, and the earth is a union". But who would have thought that what awaited them after marriage would be a cold dinner with no one on the table and an equally cold heart. Are men really that busy? What are men looking for in the night?

The nature of work determines the way of working

Mr. Wang, 40 years old, manager of a computer company

Those in our field feel really guilty when it comes to their wives and children. I don’t have a few dinners at home a year. Not only do I have to entertain customers and eat and drink, sometimes in order to attract big customers, I have to do what they want, such as bowling, playing mahjong, and karaoke with them. Sometimes I do it all night long and go back in the morning When I get home, my wife is at work and the kids are at school. Sometimes I only see this in one day.

My wife and children are now used to it and understand it. If you don’t understand it, you can’t do anything about it. The working method is determined by the nature of the work. Occasionally I go back early to have dinner with them, and they seem to be overjoyed, feeling a little overjoyed. This made me moved and sad at the same time. Although we provided them with good material conditions, I also knew that what they needed more was a "husband" and "dad." No, Li, since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have not been able to have both. I will make up for it when I quit this business.

In fact, my wife is also worried, "I stayed out all night. Could it be that I got tripped up by some woman?" She often asks me half-truthfully. We can only do the explanation work with a good attitude. After all, it is impossible for any wife to deal with this situation without a little suspicion and longing. This shows that she cares about us and cares about us. It is a good thing that we should know this and not be annoyed. Moreover, her reminder also reduces the chance of making mistakes. There are too many temptations in today's society, so it is better for your wife to be more strict.

The outside world is exciting, but the nights at home are boring

Mr. Dai, 29 years old, employee of a futures company

To be honest, I often come home late, sometimes because of necessary social activities, and sometimes I was trying to find an excuse not to go home. why? To sum it up in one sentence: The outside world is exciting, but the nights at home are boring.

My house is not big, with three rooms, only about 50 square meters in total, but it houses two of us, a one-year-old child, and a nanny. When we got together in the evening, it was so packed that I didn’t even dare to take a big step while walking. In addition, when the child cries and the wife and nanny are busy, oh, I, a man like me, always look at her as superfluous.

Why don't you take care of the children at home? I thought about it too, but when the little guy has his mother, no one will let him hold him, not me. Besides, men are not as good as women when it comes to taking care of children. They are clumsy and if they can’t do a good job, my wife will be anxious and think that I can’t do anything. I’d rather just run away and wait for a lesson. Of course, I have to find an excuse, whether it's working overtime or hanging out with my buddies, but she doesn't care about me anyway.

When I go out, I usually get together with friends, drink, play cards, surf the Internet, chat, and sometimes go to the dance hall to have a good time. Sometimes my wife gets angry because I often come home late and calls me on the phone. At this time, she can't go back right away, otherwise she will just give her a scolding. After her anger has subsided, the child has gone to bed, and she is tired, she will go back and add a few sweet words. , it was easy to coax him over.

Sometimes I really miss the time when I was in love with my wife and when I first got married. What a wonderful world the two of us had at that time. After work in the evening, we either come back to cook together, or walk around on the street, and watch movies together after dinner. This is called colorful. Now, as soon as the little one is born, my wife quickly enters the role of "mother". She holds her son in her arms all day long after work and calls her "darling", making me superfluous. Hehe, don’t tell me, I’m really jealous of my son.

It might be better when I move to a bigger house next year and my children are older. In fact, I still want to be with them.

Just to make a name for myself early

Mr. Li, 32 years old, civil servant

As a civil servant, there seems to be no reason to often come home late. In everyone's mind, civil servants are "on duty". They come to work and leave after get off work. There are no special circumstances. You should go home on time. But I often come home late. Sometimes I work overtime to write materials for my boss, and sometimes I read in the office to recharge my batteries. I am currently studying for a self-study second degree and a graduate class at the same time. I have many books to read and papers to write, and I only have to work overtime at night.

I am a very enterprising person. Nowadays, the competition in society is fierce and the pressure is quite high. I have to pay close attention. Besides, I still have a heavy family responsibility on my shoulders. My wife and I are college classmates. She is also a very motivated person and is very supportive of me. The child is still young and is in kindergarten. Both parents are out of town and she cannot live without her at home. In order for me to concentrate on my work, she takes on all the housework. I am very grateful to her. I think that when my child goes to school and I do something good, I can also relieve her stress and give her a chance to enrich herself. At that time, she might be the one returning home late.

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