Are most affairs caused by accommodation?
(1) Just be gentle and accommodating
Most men think that as long as they are considerate and obedient to women, they can win their favor. In fact, this may be a very big mistake! After reading the analysis of many psychological experts, it turns out that even the most normal women are dependent on men. Every woman needs a man who has opinions, insight and courage.
Be her flower protector. Because they don't love, they will give everything when they love. Just think, they will be stupid enough to attach themselves to a weak person? When dealing with women, you should give orders when you should take the initiative; when you are tough, you should be tough to the end.
(2) Don’t pretend to be capable
When women ask men to help with things, many men will readily agree, but in the end they do a mess, dragging them left and right, which will not help them. Get their understanding. You'd rather do your best early on and politely refuse if you know you're not up to the task. They may still think you're honest and maintain a good impression of you.
(3) Don’t be shabby
In fact, most women care about everything, but they don't like men to care about everything. As a man, you must be mentally prepared and know that when you go out with a woman, you should be generous with your money and at least not look shabby. Don't date if you don't have money.
(4) Avoid being absent-minded
When dating a woman, a man should concentrate and pay attention to the other party's conversation and intentions at all times. If you are always absent-minded, staring at her questions and topics without knowing what to do, it will be very disappointing for her! Next time you want to date her, she might treat you to a ton of lemons. So, let go of the things that often disturb your sanity! For example, if someone calls your mobile phone frequently, just turn it off! You won't die if you don't listen to a few more phone calls!
(5) Don’t ask about age
No matter how honest and sincere a woman is, when she mentions her age, she will always risk her life. Dodge, conceal or even deceive! A middle-aged woman with white hair will tell you she doesn't know what "Star Wars" is, and then ask you if you know the sequel to "Earth Strikes Back"? In short, only women under 18 and over 60 have a nonchalant attitude towards their own age. Therefore, when facing a woman, you can ask almost any question, but be sure not to involve her age.
(6) Joking carefully
Of course you can joke with women, and those you are familiar with have familiar methods of joking, and those you are not familiar with also have another method. If it is some interesting jokes, it will also have an excellent adjustment effect on the entire atmosphere of getting along. But once the joke goes too far, the effect will be very bad, and your end may be tragic. Therefore, you must be measured, carefully observe their reactions to you, and be careful not to get carried away, so as not to arouse their resentment and anger.
(7) Don’t make fun of your figure
Never make a woman’s weight a topic! Even if a woman says she doesn’t mind her weight, she still does.
I would rather praise a woman with a healthy figure and a pleasant appearance than make fun of a woman with a poor figure.
(8) Interested in her
Women hate it when men treat her well but pay attention to other things. They will doubt in their hearts whether they are completely unattractive to you, and then they will think even worse, thinking that you don't respect her at all. Once you feel like this, you have failed more than half of the time.
The other half, she will also doubt whether you only like her body, so you are dating her!
(9) Don’t be too frank
You don’t need to be too frank when dealing with women, because women don’t like to be too frank. Most of them like to talk to interesting people, and sometimes even have tit-for-tat verbal confrontations, but they don’t like those overly frank and explosive jokes too much. So, in fact, All wisecracks don’t have to be too clear, just let them spend a little time chewing on what you said to guess the meaning hidden in your words, and then they will say something as proud as if they guessed the riddle. Heart smiles. Therefore, what you say in front of them must be reserved and naughty, so that she will be happy to get close to you.
(10) Try not to talk about (sex)
Unless you are so familiar with them that you can drink a glass of water with them and reach the point where you understand each other clearly, otherwise, when you are talking to them Among the topics discussed, if there are any obscene elements, no matter how minor, it is best not to mention them in front of women. Why not share them with your friends? What you must know is that when a woman is talking to someone else, she is also very interested in all the other person’s private matters, including relationships, friends, and even marriage issues. But one thing needs to be clear, it has nothing to do with sexual concepts!
(11) Flattery is welcome
Women like to be flattered more than men. Because they like to hear flattery and are accustomed to flattery, they are quite sensitive to flattery. For example, if you praise her tight skirt, they may have heard it three hundred times, so even if they are still happy, the effect is not great. But as long as you go further and say: (You really look good in the dress, you would choose this blue skirt, it matches your figure perfectly!) She will feel that your compliment is full of reality, and your flattery will not feel like flattery. , her happiness is happiness from the bottom of her heart!






