A good man is an equation, and there will be 1,000 solutions for 1,000 women. But most women's values ​​are nothing more than the following: appearance, wealth, talent, style, and eloquence. At the same time, Chinese people also follow the golden mean when doing things, being impartial, neither left nor right, compromising and harmonious, and not going to extremes. Therefore, the value range is much wider. A good man is free between X and non-X.

1. X=Appearance X is appearance. But a good man should be between handsome and not handsome. For men, appearance should neither be like that of F4, where female fans would follow behind and scream all day long, nor should it look shameful. Handsome, although he looks pleasing to the eye and his heart is full of joy, and when he takes it to the street, envious eyes are flying everywhere, but women are narrow-minded. After their vanity is satisfied, they will always feel suspiciously that such a good-looking man must come to snatch a lot. , after becoming a "yellow-faced woman", I will even think about it all day long, don't live this day anymore. Therefore, a good man should be like this: neither a flower prince nor a frog prince.

2. Y=Wealth Y is wealth. A good man must be between rich and not rich. I remember a text message that goes like this: "Marriage proposal: poor family, 1.49 meter ugly, primary school education, rural household registration, three rooms in a dilapidated house with corn in one basket, no wife for hot pot or hot bed, medicine all year round, today's text message is popular Are you willing to join hands with a girlfriend and join hands on the road of revolution?" Are you willing to join hands with such a man? As the saying goes: "Poor and lowly couples are always miserable." Beautiful love cannot withstand the ravages of poverty. , love also has to be "woeful". Then marry a rich man? That won’t work either. You obviously married him because of love, but when it comes to other people's words, it will definitely become "this woman must be interested in other people's money and try every means to seduce them and become a young mistress." No matter what, you must first be able to withstand this cowardice. There is another saying, "Once you enter a noble family, it is as deep as the sea." Generally speaking, a very rich person often has a very powerful family. Marrying him is equivalent to marrying into a huge family. The third aunt , Qi Gu Nai’s annoyance can annoy you to death, and “men become bad when they have money”, you can’t watch it, you can’t control it, it’s hard to guard against, and it’s hard to deal with. Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have enough food and clothing, but he should not be extremely rich.

3. Z=Talent Z is talent. A good man must be between talented and untalented. The ancients said: "A man is talented and a woman is beautiful." Of course, a man must be talented, otherwise there will not be so many singles among the fools in the world. If there is nothing wrong with this woman's brain, she will basically not take the initiative to find a man with a brain problem to be her husband. Women are unconsciously attracted to talented men. So, are you really talented and skilled? Are you willing to marry Zhuge Liang? Wait for a moment and think about it before answering. Zhuge Liang is talented and has strategies, do you have any? One day, he suddenly became interested and wanted to talk to you about the "Empty City Strategy". Can you talk to him for a few words? If one day, he has to carry it on his back. Whatever you do, just say a word or two, play some little tricks, can you tell the truth from the false? Moreover, such men often rely on their talents and arrogance in the real world. They always think that they are young and innocent, and feel that "the whole world is dirty and I am alone." "Qing", it is easy to be squeezed out and become a loner in the workplace. If you meet a boss who is petty, don't talk about development and future; at home, he is the only boss and doesn't take you seriously. Then you will be miserable, just treat it as such. Minions and followers. Therefore, a good man should look like this: neither Two Hundred and Five, nor Zhuge Liang.

4. α = romantic α is romantic, a man cannot be too romantic or not romantic. Men who are too romantic are prone to flirting with women. If they eat from the bowl and stare at the food in the basin, but are still thinking about the food in the pot, you will definitely not live a stable life. There have been too many such men in history, and there is no need to bring them out to warn the majority of girls. However, the issue of being too honest needs to be explained carefully. Generally speaking, women are fed up with men's romantic attitude and suffering, and they all long to find an honest man. In fact, it is not good for a man who is too honest and arrogant. When you go out with him on the street, he looks serious and does not look sideways, unlike a playboy who follows beautiful women with his eyes. But have you ever thought that he doesn't even look at such a beautiful woman, and you still expect him to do it? Looking at you more? There is no basis for this. There are examples to prove it: Xin'er, a very romantic girl, once fell in love with a very lovable boy. He was beautiful, and more importantly, he was good at sex. She will suddenly see a beautiful bottle filled with stars in the drawer, and she will also accidentally find an exquisite bracelet in the bag, which gives her a lot of surprises. But the boy was a philanderer, and it didn't take long for the joy to turn to pain. Xin'er decided not to suffer like this again, so she found a very honest man and married him. She thought that although the surprise was gone, at least there was still simple love. But it turns out that this is even more unbearable for her. This simplicity is almost numb. He never pays close attention to her, doesn't know how to sweet talk, doesn't know how to flirt. He doesn't understand the romance she carefully arranged, in this kind of life. It's like a pool of stagnant water. Therefore, a good man should look like this: neither Ximen Qing, Tang Bohu, nor Wu Dalang and Sha Wujing.

5. β = Eloquence β is eloquence. Men cannot speak well, nor can they speak poorly. Do you remember Bao Longxing in Zhou Xingchi's "Nine Levels of Sesame"? He is the one who stands in front of the sea and scolds all the fish and shrimps in the sea out of the water. His saliva is probably comparable to a mine. . Do you want to marry a man like that? At home, you just say a word and he is already drooling all over the place, so can you still interrupt? With a man who has language hegemony, even freedom of speech cannot be guaranteed. How about marrying a person who is clumsy? Don’t even bother! Say a word to him and he won’t be able to hold it in for a long time, so don’t worry! In this way, you may not even have to fight in your life. Therefore, it is said that you should find someone who is comparable to you and be his opponent in life. It is better to advance and retreat, and you advance while I retreat. Wouldn’t it be nice? Therefore, a good man is neither a stammer nor an expert in debating. X, Y, Z, α, β, no matter which one it is, it is an open interval. There are many, many points between them, and there are many, many good men among millions of men. Think about it, which point is a good man for you.

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